OVERCOMING SELF-DOUBT AND UNLOCKING YOUR FULL POTENTIALS

Many people are suffering because of lack of self-confidence (self-doubt), doubting oneself has a lot to do with your success in life. When you believe in yourself, it helps you to plan your future for success. Self-doubt leads to failure, not success because when you are double-minded for the success of the things you are doing or you wants to do, it automatically leads you to failure if care is not taken.

I have a friend Tochi, he wants to do jumia sales consultant, he registered for it but he's doubting himself whether he's going to make money from been a jumia sales consultant, he said to me "I don't know how to tell people I'm a jumia sales consultant so that people will contact me for their orders on Jumia", I gave him one answer "If you meet someone don't be double minded whether he/she will agree to contact you for their orders, just believe that they will accept you and most of all believe that you can do it", he did as I told him,  now he's enjoying it. 

Believing in yourself matters a lot, stop doubting yourself and unlock your full potential.

Many people will be asking "HOW?", "I have been doubting myself on some certain issue, infact I think it's part of me" said by one of my friends. NO is the answer, self-doubt is not and will not be part of you, the only thing that makes you think like that is that you have tried to stop yourself from doubting yourself, you can try more, put in the best of you as you follow my guidelines. 

I have with me how you can do overcome self-doubt and unlock your full potential.

1. Stop comparing yourself with others.

Comparison is one of the key target of self-doubt, you can realize that whenever you compare your goal with the goals of others within you, you feels that your goal isn't perfect, that's the starting of self-doubt. To stop self-doubt, you have to stop comparing your plans with the plans of others around you, believe that your plan is the best for you and press forward to unlocking your full potential

2. Don't mind what others are saying about you.

When someone criticizes you then it’s easy to start doubting yourself. When someone rejects you and you don’t get a second date after that first one that you think went pretty well then it’s not so strange to get down on yourself.

So be careful so you don’t misinterpret and build blame and doubt within without any reason.

3. Always keep in mind that you are not a failure because you failed.

When you have a setback then you may start to see things through a negative and dark lens. You might see this current setback as something that will simply be your new normal.

This way of looking at things can trap you in thinking that there's no point in continuing to take action.

Use the mistake or failure to your advantage and to move forward once again in smarter way.

4. Improve your skills.

If you, for instance, often get self-doubt before a presentation in school or at work then sharpen your presentation skills.

Read a few books about it and practice at home in front of a mirror or in front of a friend. Or join Toastmasters to get the experience or knowledge you need. Then you'll feel more confident, competent and relaxed in such situations.

If you can reach this part in this article, it means you can overcome self-doubt and unlock your full potentials. Try those steps above and you will be happy on the results that comes out of it, kindly subscribe to my blog.